Once a guy starts to get at least a little bit good at meeting and attracting women, you'd think that everything would just fall into place and things would be perfect from there on, right? Wrong! Plenty of men find that even when they do get decent at attracting women, they still end up in situations that are not really up to their expectations. You might find that you end up attracting women with problems or women who don't seem to know how to let the drama go. What are you going to do then?
What you can do, is to learn how to avoid hooking up with the wrong women and one way to do that is to become aware of certain "red flags" that you need to be able to recognize that are going to tell you that she is probably not the one for you. Trust me, plenty of women who are bad for you are going to give out these signs, it's just that most guys don't want to see them.
Here are some tips on things to watch out for so that you don't end up hooking up with the wrong woman:
1) All her past relationships have been messy.
You might feel sorry for a woman with a story like this and assume that it was always the guy's fault in the situation. However, when a woman has a long track record of having messy relationships and she seems to be the constant variable in each equation, you have to assume that some of it has to do with her. You have to be able to get past feeling sorry for a woman in order to see what really went on. That's not to say that a good woman can't have had some bad relationships in the past, it's just that when they all seem to have been bad relationships, a good rule of thumb is to assume that she had a lot to do with it.
2) She doesn't know how to act around guys except to flirt with them.
When you are dating a woman who only knows how to interact with men by flirting with them, there is one thing that you can count on. Things will get messy. I have a friend who dated a woman like this and all of the time he was getting into bar fights because she would flirt with a guy, that guy would assume that she liked him, and then he would see my friend as someone coming into take "his" girl. You don't want to deal with these kinds of situations all of the time, so if it seems like the only thing that she knows how to do with guys is to flirt, you may want to pass her by.
3) She is a little bit too easy.
This may not come across as being politically correct, but if a woman seems a bit too easy to get with, then you can usually assume that this is not the first time she has been like that. What that can sometimes lead to, is a woman who doesn't really have too many barriers when it comes to relationships and that can usually mean that she is the type that you have to worry about cheating on you, or wondering about her past sexually. Sometimes, too easy can be a very bad thing.
When you realize that a woman has a lot of these red flags, you really need to be able to pass her on by if you don't want to deal with a lot of messy situations. If you don't, then you really only have yourself to blame when things go sour.
One of the things that you have to learn to do is to ask a woman out and then learn to screen her to see if she is right for you.
Go to: 20 questions to ask her to learn what things you can ask to find out more about her.
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